
Is he really a month old already!? I can't believe how FAST time is flying. My biggest fear is always that I'll forget the little things, time just goes by way too fast and there are way too many special moments to remember! I guess that's why I'm so obsessed with blogging and taking pictures, it helps me remember that things I'd forget otherwise. So bear with me on this post, it's just an effort to preserve memories of my new little baby!

He is SUCH a happy little guy! Whoever said that newborns don't smile socially must have been smoking something! Ben has been a smiler since the day he was born. He is totally content just sitting on his own staring into space but the moment you pick him up he smiles and gets all excited! He is so social and loves attention in any form, even from his rambunctious older brother.

So far he has been a GREAT sleeper. I keep wondering if this is too good to be true, he's just too easy to take care of! From the day we brought him home from the hospital he's only been waking up one or two times during the night. He has been able to sleep six hours at a time during the night from day one, the blessing of having a such a big baby I guess! :)

He is very easy to get to sleep too. Usually when he's tired I just swaddle him and lay him down and he'll slowly dose off to sleep, at night he goes right back to sleep after he's done eating. Sometimes it takes him awhile to go to sleep in the evening, right before he goes to sleep for the night, but that is the best time for me to spend rocking him because Zack is usually in bed so I don't mind at all.

He LOVES having his hands right up next to his face. Zack would break out of being swaddled to put his hands above his head, Ben breaks out of the swaddle so he can scratch his face up! :)

He is growing SO fast! He has already lost the newborn look...This was when he was just a few days old.

This was about a week ago.

I guess when you have a baby that is almost 10 pounds they lose the newborn look REALLY fast! :)
I was wondering how difficult it'd be to take care of a 2 year old and a newborn but so far it has been surprisingly easy. Zack LOVES Ben and is more than happy to give him his binky or pay some attention to him when he gets fussy. Ben is so mellow and easy going that I feel like I have to make an extra effort to make sure I'm giving him enough attention!

Oh, and did I mention that he doesn't spit up!? I REALLY hope that doesn't change, Zack spit up enough as a baby that I think I've earned a non-spit-uper (nice word eh?) When Zack was a baby he only wore an outfit for a few hours before it would be soaking wet and I'd have to change him, with Ben I just change him because I should, not because I have to.

So the summary is...I am LOVING it! You know how some people go through postpartum depression? I am lucky because it's exactly the opposite for me. I just feel overwhelmingly happy. I just can't get over how awesome my life is right now. Trent has been so sweet. He is such a cute dad, I just love it!

He was SO helpful when I wasn't feeling well from the c-section. He did pretty much everything for us during that time.
And of course I sure can't complain about NOT being pregnant anymore. I love what pregnancy brings but being done with it is sure worth celebrating about! It is just heavenly to be able to sleep on my back again, and be able tie my shoes or pick something up off the floor without significant effort. Oh, and being able to breath again and wait more than an hour between trips to the bathroom...I don't mind that one bit. Not to mention I feel somewhat more sane, I am pretty emotional the ENTIRE time I'm pregnant, so yes being done with pregnancy is definitely worth celebrating...plus I have a beautiful baby to hold now. :) I am loving every minute with my family, life is just good right now!